Content warning for explicit discussion of sexuality and sexual behavior, masturbation, and sex toys. May contain external; links which should be assumed nsfw and visit-at-your-own-risk.
So, over on tumblr redbeardace made a very valid point that while ace communities have a lot of theoretical discussions about things like sex drive and masturbation, there’s often very little discussion about the specific topic of sex toys, which for many people are a big part of solo sexual play.
So, let’s change that! This is an open thread for anything you’d like to say or ask about masturbation, sex toys, or anything on those lines that you may not have felt comfortable saying anywhere else!
Some food for thought:
- Do you use sex toys? Why or why not?
- What kinds of sex toys do you particular like or dislike?
- Are you comfortable talking about things like sex toys and masturbation? If not, why is that and what could make it more comfortable for you?
- Do you think being ace affects your opinion of or use of sex toys, or your willingness to talk about using them?
- Do you have any reccommendations for or against specific toys?
- Any questions about certain kinds of toys that you’ve always wanted to ask?
Anonymous comments should be enabled, so feel free to use a pseudonym if you’d rather not be linked to this kind of conversation. However, please keep the conversation respectful and remember that everyone has different likes and dislikes, and that’s not a bad thing.