Step 1: Blog about asexuality
Step 2: Cake
Step 3: ???
Step 4: Profit!
This is a down-to-the-wire submission to the April Carnival of Aces, “All the birds but us…”. For a long time – including the period when I started and was most active on this blog – I mostly thought about big … Continue reading
Figuring out what “attraction” really meant was a bit of a puzzle for me, especially when I first questioned whether I was ace. I definitely knew early on that I must not be feeling quite the same thing everyone else … Continue reading
A/N: I posted this to another private community as part of a National Coming Out day prompt about sharing your coming out stories, but I thought I’d post it here too for everyone else. To anyone who is planning to … Continue reading
Content warning for explicit discussion of sexuality and sexual behavior, masturbation, and sex toys. May contain external; links which should be assumed nsfw and visit-at-your-own-risk. So, over on tumblr redbeardace made a very valid point that while ace communities have … Continue reading
At some point around when I was in elementary school, I made the mostly disastrously decision to play softball, which is, as it turns out, an incredibly boring sport which involves spending 90% of your time standing around kicking holes in … Continue reading
Sometimes, when looking back at my life, I find all sorts of ways that my asexuality has affected me that I just never noticed because at the time because I thought everyone was that way. For example, at some point … Continue reading
some musings from a private conversation I was having a while ago, about the difference between sex and gender: In the usual usage, as I understand it: “sex” refers to more “biological” characteristics; it refers to the m/f designation assigned … Continue reading